The Return of the Divine Queen: Healing the Feminine and Building Your Paradise Empire
- Bruklan Starr LeFay
- Jan 22
- 10 min read
Updated: Nov 13
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Hey there, my Fantastical Fairies and radiant Magical Starr-bursts! And yes, I see you too, the ones giggling your way through a full-on case of Bruklan-itis (don’t worry, it’s the most fabulous thing you could ever “catch”). ✨
It’s your Goddess Bruklan, swooping in with a swirl of glitter, a dash of mischief, and a whole lot of soul-fire to help you dream bigger, shine brighter, and sprinkle enchantment everywhere you go.
Recognizing the difference between divine feminine and distorted feminine energy is crucial in our journey to personal empowerment and growth. The divine feminine encompasses receptivity, nurturing love, and intuition, while the distorted feminine often thrives on manipulation and control. By identifying these differences and standing firm in our power, we can reclaim our inner throne and manifest the paradise living we deserve.
Understanding Divine Feminine Energy
At the heart of all creation lies the pulse of the Divine Feminine. The sacred force of intuition, nurturing, sensuality, creativity, and flow. She is the womb of infinite possibility, the silent moonlight that guides the soul through the darkness, and the soft yet unbreakable power that births entire worlds from the unseen.
The Divine Feminine is not limited to gender. It is an energy that dances within every being. When in harmony, she radiates grace and magnetism. She creates through ease, not force. She trusts the Universe as her co-creator and embodies abundance simply by being.
But when she forgets her worth, when pain and trauma cloud her mirror, this energy can become distorted, fragmented, and disconnected from her true nature.
Divine feminine energy represents the essence of creation, a nurturing force that encourages collaboration, balance, and compassion. This energy allows individuals to connect deeply with their intuition and the natural world. When we are in tune with our divine feminine, we invite a sense of peace, support, and understanding into our lives.
The divine feminine encourages us to express our feelings, set healthy boundaries, and embrace our true selves without fear of judgment. When we embody this energy, we can cultivate an environment that promotes healing, authenticity, and creativity.
The Distorted Feminine Energy: Identification
Distorted Feminine Energy wears many masks. Sometimes she hides in victimhood, dependency, jealousy, or passive manipulation. Other times, she overcompensates by becoming hardened, competitive, controlling, or emotionally unavailable in the name of survival.
This distortion arises from centuries of suppression, heartbreak, betrayal, and internalized shame. It’s the wounded voice whispering, “I must prove my worth,” or “I’m not safe to be soft.”
You may recognize her when you:
Overgive to be loved or needed
Fear losing control and micromanage everything
Feel threatened by other women’s power or beauty
Struggle to receive help, love, or abundance
Engage in emotional games to feel secure
Feel stuck in comparison or competition
Use sexuality to manipulate or to fill a void
This energy is not your enemy. It’s your messenger. It calls for integration, healing, and remembrance. The distorted feminine is the shadow begging to be transmuted into gold.
The distorted feminine energy can be insidious, often disguising itself as love or caring concern, but its ultimate goal is to drain the divine feminine energy from others.
Many may experience this energy in personal relationships, workplaces, or other communal settings. Understanding distorted feminine tactics allows us to guard our own energy and avoid unnecessary entanglements.
My Journey: Rising Above the Distorted Feminine
There was a time when I, too, was lost in distortion. I wore invisible chains of people-pleasing and perfectionism, seeking validation in all the wrong places. I poured from an empty cup, mistaking exhaustion for devotion, confusion for love, and survival for success.
My awakening came quietly. Through whispers in meditation, through tears that refused to be silenced, through the soft yet commanding voice of my Higher Self saying, “Rise.”
I learned that reclaiming the throne isn’t about domination. It’s about sovereignty. It’s about becoming the embodied Goddess. One who reigns through alignment, not control.
I began clearing the illusions that once ruled me:
Releasing attachments to external validation
Detaching from toxic dynamics disguised as love
Forgiving the women who mirrored my wounds
And most importantly, forgiving myself for forgetting who I was
With each release, the crown became lighter. No longer a symbol of burden, but of divine remembrance.
Throughout my life, I have encountered numerous individuals embodying distorted feminine energy. Often, their actions seemed to create chaos or insecurity in my surroundings, testing my ability to remain steadfast in my divine feminine nature.
Now that I am aware of these tactics, such as guilt-tripping or emotional blackmail, I can recognize them for what they are: a desperate attempt to draw me away from my personal strength. By standing strong and remaining conscious of my own energy, I have found ways to rise above these challenges, creating a bubble of paradise living around me.
Recognizing Tactics and Setting Boundaries
Distorted feminine energy often operates through energetic entanglement such as guilt, gaslighting, silent competition, or subtle sabotage. When you begin to embody your Divine Feminine truth, these energies may try to pull you back into old frequencies.
To rise above them, you must become discerning. Like a high priestess guarding sacred temples of light.
Recognize these tactics:
Emotional manipulation disguised as “concern”
Playing small to keep others comfortable
Guilt-tripping when you set healthy boundaries
Projection from others who fear your power
And counter them with sacred boundaries:
“No” becomes your spell of protection.
Distance becomes your energetic detox.
Silence becomes your reclamation of peace.
Self-love becomes your armor and your sword.
Boundaries do not push the right people away. They keep your kingdom clear of energetic thieves. Remember, a Queen does not explain her boundaries; she embodies them.
Awareness is the first step in reclaiming your energy and ensuring you don’t fall prey to distorted feminine tactics. One must be vigilant in recognizing these manipulative behaviors.
By remaining aware you not only safeguard your energy but also take the necessary steps to establish a healthy environment for personal growth and relationships grounded in mutual respect.
Healing Your Divine Feminine Energy
To cultivate your Divine Feminine energy, you must learn to be, not just do. To create, not chase. To allow, not control.
Here are sacred ways to nourish her within you:
🌹 Connect with your body. Move intuitively. Dance, sway, stretch, breathe. Your body is the throne of your soul.
🌙 Practice emotional alchemy. Don’t suppress your emotions; transmute them into wisdom. Cry, write, pray, sing. Let energy move through you.
✨ Reclaim your sensuality. Sensuality is not shameful. It’s sacred. Indulge in textures, scents, and pleasures that remind you you’re alive.
🌸 Honor rest and receptivity. You are not lazy for resting. Rest is divine strategy. The moon waxes and wanes; so must you.
🌈 Create rituals of beauty. Adorn your space with flowers, candles, and crystals. Let beauty be your prayer and devotion your discipline.
🌞 Trust your intuition. She speaks in whispers, not shouts. Learn to listen without logic.
Each time you honor these practices, you rewire your inner world to reflect your Divinity and life begins to mirror your worth.
Journaling and self-reflection can also lead to deeper insights into your feelings and experiences, helping you better understand your desires, boundaries, and intentions. With mindful awareness, you can energize the divine feminine within you, setting a strong foundation for personal growth and healing.
Building Your Paradise Empire
When the Divine Feminine rises within you, creation flows effortlessly. The Paradise Empire you dream of whether in business, art, love, or legacy cannot be built on distorted foundations. It must be birthed from balance, faith, and authenticity.
Your Paradise Empire is not about control or hierarchy. It’s about sovereignty through service. It’s about creating a world that mirrors Heaven through your unique frequency.
To build your Empire:
Lead with heart-centered purpose. Align your actions with your mission.
Balance masculine structure with feminine flow. Plan, but remain open to divine redirection.
Embody magnetism, do not chase energy. Opportunities flow when you stand rooted in truth.
Surround yourself with aligned energies. Build alliances, not attachments.
Celebrate your wins. Gratitude amplifies abundance.
Your Empire is not built in a day. It’s cultivated through consistent embodiment of your higher self. You are both the architect and the artwork.
As you build your empire, remember that it starts from within. The more you cultivate your divine feminine energy, the more you will attract similar energies into your life.
The Journey Forward
The journey of reclaiming your throne is eternal. It's a spiral rather than a straight path. Each challenge you face is another initiation, another chance to choose alignment over illusion.
As you rise, others will feel your light and remember their own. You’ll find that your greatest power isn’t in ruling others but in inspiring sovereignty within them.
The true Queen does not dominate.
She radiates.
She heals through presence.
She creates Paradise wherever her feet touch the earth.
So, polish your crown, Goddess. Lift your chin. Breathe in your worth. The throne has waited patiently for your return.
And this time, you rise not to rule through ego but to reign through love, light, and Divine remembrance.
✨👑 Welcome back to your throne. Welcome home to your Paradise Empire. ✨
🌙 The Throne Reclamation Ritual
Purpose:
To rise above distorted feminine energy, cleanse energetic residue from the past, and activate your Divine Feminine power to build your Paradise Empire with grace, magnetism, and love.
Best Time:
During a waxing moon or Venus hour (for empowerment and attraction) Or whenever you feel the need to reclaim your inner throne
Duration: 33 minutes (symbolizing the ascension of Divine mastery and remembrance)
✨ 1. Prepare Your Sacred Space
Choose a quiet space where you feel safe and sovereign.
Light three candles:
One white for purity and truth. One pink for self-love and compassion. One gold for Divine Feminine royalty
Surround yourself with crystals such as rose quartz, moonstone, citrine, or amethyst.
If possible, have a small mirror to symbolize your throne and reflection of Divinity.
Place a bowl of water before you. Representing emotional cleansing and rebirth.
Play soft, celestial music or an instrumental with harp or goddess chants.
🌹 2. The Energetic Cleansing
Close your eyes. Inhale deeply through the nose, exhale softly through the mouth. Feel your shoulders relax, your jaw unclench, and your heart begin to open.
Whisper to yourself:
“I now release all cords, energies, and distortions that no longer serve my Divine Feminine essence.
I cleanse myself of jealousy, fear, competition, guilt, and self-doubt.
I am returning home to my sacred truth.”
As you say these words, dip your fingers in the bowl of water and lightly anoint your heart, crown, and throat. Three portals of feminine expression.
Visualize dark energy dissolving into shimmering stardust, sinking into the earth where it is transmuted into light.
🌸 3. The Mirror of Remembrance
Look into the mirror before you. Do not judge. Simply see. See the ancient goddess within your reflection.
Place your hand over your heart and say aloud:
“I see you. I honor you.
You are the embodiment of Divine beauty, power, and creation.
You are safe to shine. You are safe to lead.
You are the Queen of your Paradise Empire.”
If emotion rises, let it. Tears are the river of rebirth.
🔥 4. The Throne Invocation
Now visualize a radiant golden throne behind you shimmering with divine light. This is the throne of your higher self.
Step backward in your mind’s eye until you are seated upon it. Feel the stability beneath you, the weight of your crown upon your head, and the luminous warmth filling your body.
Say:
“I reclaim my throne.
I reign with love, wisdom, and compassion.
My boundaries are sacred. My energy is sovereign.
I am the embodiment of Divine Feminine power in balance and peace.”
Sit here in silence for a few moments.
Breathe deeply.
Let the energy of your throne align every cell in your body with your royal essence.
🌕 5. Seal the Energy
Take your bowl of water, now infused with released energy, and whisper:
“As I pour this out, I release what was and welcome what is becoming.”
Pour the water outside into the earth (or down the drain with gratitude).
Then place your right hand over your heart and your left over your womb or lower abdomen.
Whisper the final seal:
“I am whole. I am healed. I am home.”
Bow your head slightly and imagine a golden halo of light forming around you. Sealing your aura in divine radiance.
💫 Optional Enhancements Anointing oil: Mix rose, jasmine, or sandalwood oil and anoint your wrists and neck before bed for seven nights after performing the ritual. Journaling Prompt: What part of my feminine energy am I ready to reclaim today? How does my Divine Feminine wish to express herself in my life and work?
Affirmation mantra:
“My power is soft yet unstoppable. My light is gentle yet infinite.
I am the Divine Feminine, and I create Paradise from within.”
This ritual can be performed anytime you feel yourself slipping into distortion, doubt, or depletion.
Every time you perform it, your inner throne becomes stronger and your outer world begins to reflect your royal alignment.
👑✨ You are not becoming the Queen. You already are. You’re simply remembering.
Prayer for Divine Feminine Empowerment
Divine Goddess within and around me,
I call upon your radiant energy to awaken the essence of my feminine power.
Flow through me with grace, love, and wisdom. Let my heart shine with compassion, my intuition guide me with clarity, and my creativity blossom with boundless potential.
I embrace the nurturing, sensual, and transformative forces of the divine feminine.
May I walk with confidence in my sacred worth, honoring my body, my emotions, and my spirit as vessels of divine beauty.
May this energy empower me to live authentically and create a world filled with harmony and abundance. I am grateful for the divine feminine within me.
So it is, and so shall it be.
Amen.
Until we dance through words again, may you trip over moonbeams, pocket stardust for later, and giggle with the universe itself.
Catch you in the next post, my sparkling daydreamers. Stay twinkly, stay fabulous. 🌙✨💖
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